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Saturday
Feb282009

On a lighter note. Literally.

Night-light In the past month or so, Lil E has been waking up and happily getting out of his bed all on his own. He is nearly 4-1/2 now and just realizing he doesn't need to wait for me to come in, kiss him and tell him it is OK to get up. I haven't fought this, but have enjoyed waking up to his fingers touching my cheeks and little voice asking, "Is it time to rise and shine and give God my glory?"

This is all a lovely morning scene. Until it happens an hour earlier than usual. Then, he's empowered and I'm exhausted. Later that night, he's exhausted and I'm doing some complicated parenting math formula to figure out how to teach this kid to tell time before the next morning.

Is it a huge issue? But it is sleep, and every drop of that is precious, as we all know all too well.

When my friend Charlene told me she was smitten with a the Good Nite Lite since she'd put it in her own son's room all I could think was of the few extra minutes I could be getting. This adorable night light (no more lit-up Sponge Bob! no more crappy plastic!) made just for kids in the transition of getting out of bed alone and seeing by the clock that it's an OK time to do that. 

Here's how it works: Parents set a clock on the night light, designating the time to come on in the evening and a time to alert children they can get up. At night, a sweet blue moon is illuminated and at the appropriate morning hour, a cheery yellow sun shines.

The kind people at Good Nite Lite sent us one to try and after some fumbling to get the clock set properly, we plugged it in, read some stories, sang some songs and tucked in for the evening. This morning, Lil E padded into my room and whispered loudly, "My sun is shining! It's a good time to get up!"

I looked at my own clock, and it was almost an hour later than the normal time, two hours past the too-early wake-up calls. We were late, but rested. And I was happy, not just to get out of my own bed at a much more decent hour, but to skip the time telling calculations before I had coffee.

UPDATE: After a few days of using the Good Nite Lite, we are still very happy with how our mornings are going. There are two things that would make a big difference in its ease of use, though. First, the clock is too low-tech for the product, making the few minutes it takes to set more irritating than it needs to be. Secondly, I'd LOVE a weekend or special event setting so the wake-up time on sleep-in days can be set a little later.

The Good Nite Lite is $35 and might just have to go on my list of favorite gifts for preschooler kids.

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Thursday
Feb262009

Possibly the biggest worry a single parent has

Boobs I found a lump in my breast. My doctor kindly listened as I explained that I found it on the last day of my vacation, that I was scared, that I often overreact about my health when I am stressed. Then she examined me and, thank goodness, felt the lump but didn't feel concerned. To be sure that I am healthy, she sent me to get a mammogram.

The doctor called and spoke softly and steadily into the phone, telling me my mammogram results came back "perfect." There was a pause in her sentence, and my stomach dropped. I felt the same fear that welled up as I cried in her exam room a week ago.

"I'm a single mom," I confided with tears running down my cheeks. "I am terrified something will happen to me."

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Tuesday
Feb242009

This is not a shoe blog: I love knock-offs. Even if they're completely crappy knock-offs.

Ferragamoladysarah Remember these lovelies, with just a hint of rhinestones set regally atop red velvet that looks as smooth as butter spread across your sweet little foot?

Yeah, well someone won them. And not only was it not me, it wasn't even someone I know and can buy pomtinis for until they acquiesce and let me wear them out or even around the apartment for a while.

No no no, it's fine. Really, it is. The winner is probably used to lacing up some Rocs and power walking laps around the mall with the girls, so think how much sassier she's going to look passing by the 14-year old onlookers at Claire's and Aunt Annie's.

Come to think of it, the winner would have to receive email alerts from Salvatore Ferragamo, so I'm going to make the big leap and assume she isn't truly a Rocs wearer. Probably more like Naturalizer or Aerosoles. (Allow me to let down the judgy front for just a moment to admit that both these brands do have some way-cute styles that I would  totally wear and even some I wear all the time...cross my most sensible kitten heels).

So if I can't have those red velvet cinematic wonders, why not have some that come close? That's what I thought as I trolled my favorite online pump pimps for knock-offs. Happily, there are many beautiful red velvet shoes out there, some of which I might be able to pay off over the next year or two. Sadly, the more budget-friendly the shoes I found were, the more I felt my stomach sink in the same disappointment I feel whenever I see similar spreads in magazines. Let's face it, the designer ones always look a gajillion times better/fancier/more fun to put on for a night out. Why is that? Someone call Jessica Simpson('s shoe people) and get them a bolt of scarlet crushed STAT!

In the meantime, here are the knock-offs I found, counting up to what I think is the best option for those of us unwilling to hunt down that contest winner and rip the ankle straps right off of her. What do you think? Passable or just pass?

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